Wednesday, March 25, 2009

Court day-take 2-VICTORY!


So here's the deal-we were encouraged this morning to see the sunshine for the first time since we have been here. We alloted enough time for us to take care of some things, have some time to eat, and make sure we arrived early at Obolon metro station to meet Yuriy for a short drive over to the court house. Finally, everyone showed up except for the inspector from the boy's region, and she walked in out of breath just before 4 pm. Our friendly judge and 2 jurors clopped in within 30 seconds. We started our usual round of "who am I" and "why am I here" through the room. Everything seemed to be moving fine, until we got to the representative for the orphanage where the boys live. The director couldn't be there today, so she sent the attorney for the orphanage with a power of attorney letter. There was more awkward silence while the judge perused the papers and asked rapid fire questions to the attorney, who was obviously shaken by some issue. Yuriy turned to us and basically said, "you aren't going to believe this, but the judge is saying that we have the same problem, only it is with the other orphanage now"(with the paper work wording for power of attorney). It got quiet again. Vickie and I were both silently praying and waiting for someone to speak to break the silence. More Russian words are exchanged and finally Yuriy told us that the judge is going to allow her to bring a modified paper in the morning before 10 am.(this same document needing changed wording for the other orphanage could've happened back last Friday when our court was cancelled, but evidently the judge did not want to go forward then)

We just now are getting to the heart of the process and already everyone is on pins and needles to see what is next. So, Chris gets to go first. He is grilled on everything from where he was born, to what his job is, to what is your income, to how many children, to how big is your house, to how are you going to provide health care for them, to what is your shoe size(just kidding), to why do you want these kids, etc... But the exciting thing is that we had a captive audience (judge included) that had to listen to the great story of God in taking us through three adoption adventures! They all had to listen to how we believe that this is possibly one of God's greatest uses of our life, and how we know that this in line with the scriptures and the heart of God. Next Vickie got to share her story, and be grilled with some questions from the judge and the 2 jurors..."why do you want to adopt more kids? How will you discipline them?" So phase one was complete...

Now Your Honor (aka miss congeniality) got to ask our future kids into the room one at a time. It was a small scale circus. First, girl 'k' did a beautiful job, even answering with some English words. Next, big 'k' sheepishly smiled his way through saying to the court with an honest goof up of telling them we had 7 kids. They asked if he knew who we were and he answered, "Yes--Americans!" The court room burst into laughter. Who knew? Next, little 'k' breezed in and energetically told the court that we were his "Mama and Papa!" I think I saw a smile even in the judge's face. Okay, just one more step since no one from any of the agencies represented had a problem with the court findings. Oh yeah, one more thing Your Honor...Chris got the chance to share the story of Karson's brother Ruslan, who passed up the opportunity to come to America with us in 2006, and later died of Tuberculosis. He explained how this motivated us to take action even when we just found out about the sister of these two boys, and how this makes us want to take her into our family as well. There were actually tears from the eyes of the several in the room. We waited as the judge and jurors left for deliberation.

Back they come and everyone quickly sits down to await the answer. Okay stand up again and listen. The court decision is read. Get ready.

Meet 15-year-old Kollin Eric Nichols, 13-year-old Kayla Anastasia Nichols, and 10-year-old Kory Elliot Nichols. All now part of the Nichols' family. More details later!

Blessings,

Chris, Vickie, and Kelsey

Psalm 68:6
"God sets the lonely in families..."

11 comments:

Bart said...

Congratulations. Indeed, "He has done all things well" (Mark 7:37).

Chris G. said...

OK let's see: Kelsey, Kirby, Kyle, Karson, Kollin, Kayla, Kyndal, Kole and Kory? Have we got that right in age order? So awesome. A real answer to prayer that you had a chance to testify to God's grace to the captive audience! Really missing you guys. Can't wait to meet the newest Nichols.

Chris and Gina

Suzette said...

I have been waiting all day to hear this wonderful news! Congratulations! What a wonderful opportunity to put God on display! Vitalik is all smiles as well. Tell Kollin that he is looking forward to seeing him! Suzette

Brockfamily said...

A perfect "hand off" from God to you!! Remember when you shared with us in M17 that you did not want to miss the hand off. Well I guess the only thing left to say is "let the games begin". We love you all!

Smiles,

Joan and family!

deb said...

Well done Vickie, Chris and Kelsey. I love the names and can hardly wait to see all of you. Make sure they know I am anxious to see them and to get to know them and love them as our family. please stay safe and look forward to seeing all of you guys. We are all praying for you all and know God is at work in all your ventures. love Deb

Hall family said...

Wow! The entire Hall Family is so excited about this and we all cannot wait to meet the new children! Our 16 year old son Evan has the middle name Elliott...after the missionary...great name. Congrats on this amazing wonderful season in your life. Hi Kelsey! Can you believe we are all at this point in our families? We leave soon to go get "little Marina". Looks like you will have one girl without an E middle name and we will have two girls named Marina! Oh well...not quite as expected, but hey...that's part of the journey! Love you all and we continue to pray as the next steps are taken. Val, Randy and kids

Sadie said...

YAY!!! Congratulations! I am impressed you came up with three more "K"s....so will that be your determining factor of just how big you get? Just keep adding kids until you run out of K names?? ;) Love you guys! Check out "www.myspecialks.com" it's another mom of K kids, 4 birth kids and the 5th is one they are working on adopting from Eastern Europe somewhere, I wanna say Ukraine but I can't remember for sure, anyway, I think you could connect with them on stories, they're really great people!

Anonymous said...

We are so excited for you! Looking forward to meeting your new children. I can see us taking up half of a mexican restaurant for sure. We'll save up and make it our treat. Can't wait!

We love you all - Paul, Julie, Jordan, Jessica, Jill, and Jenna

Brian Wickersham said...

I'm so happy for you all. Thanks for sharing this journey with us.

Dedy Werk said...

What a great victory We have been praying for this day. We love the names too and can't wait to get to know the kids soon. We miss you Love the Werk family

Alan said...

Congratulations! What an ordeal for you.